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What if you could build a strong marriage now by taking an online course that helps you address all the hard conversations that often lead to divorce?

Are you in a serious relationship or engaged and currently planning a wedding? 

Yay! Congrats. That's huge and exciting. 

Does wedding planning include how you and your significant other are going to tackle the hard questions like money, kids, values, work life balance, and personal goals?

Does it include a line item for talking to an attorney to get educated on laws of your state? 

I can tell you that the majority of people who answer yes to the first question, answer no to the second two.

 You are not alone and you are definitely in the right place.

Prioritize your Marriage now....before you say "I Do."

 I have heard all of the above, and often these are comments that come up during my consultations with people for their divorce. 

My clients say things like: "We got married young so we didn't have anything to protect in a prenup."  

"We talked about money, but he handled all the investments so I don’t know where all the money went."  

"We agreed on goals when we got married but her goals changed and that wasn't the life I wanted."  

Generally people do not get married while also picturing themselves getting a divorce.  

Trust me I get it. Prenups have been given a bad reputation for being a tool of the wealthy or a means to keep your partner from getting a piece of some family money or business. 

"They are so not romantic."  

But this is all wrong. Premarital planning and prenups are operating agreements for your marriage. And yes, part of it decides what happens in the event of divorce. 

Planning for a divorce is a way of reverse engineering your marriage to prepare for all the pitfalls and changes a marriage can encounter.  

Marriage is one of the most legally significant things you can do… to dying. Yet, people just wanna wing it. But I got you!

If you're finding yourself say....

  • "We trust each other and would never do anything in divorce to hurt the other"

  • "We talk about money. We know how much each person makes. So I don't feel like we need to do more than that."

  • "We are on the same page about everything."

  • "We do not really have any assets so we do not need a prenup."

I will give you the tools and resources to help build a stronger marriage. 

Did you know that over 50% of first time marriages end in divorce? 

Did you know the average length of a marriage before divorce is 8 years? 

The common reasons couples divorce being lack of commitment, infidelity, conflict, being too young when married, and financial problems. However, if you look at the root of most of the issues, in my experience, it comes down to communication issues and unmet expectations of the marriage. 

Marry Me Smart specifically addresses these issues to help to get ahead of common marital problems that lead to divorce. 

Just think, would you buy a car that you were told would fail 50% of the time? 

So why enter into a legally binding marriage with those same odds without doing something more to ensure its success. 

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Program Overview

Self-Paced Course Segments

8 Segment course that you can do at your own pace.  The segments are broken down into short videos so you can plan what segments you want to tackle each day. They are meant to be viewed...then paused for discussion.  You can complete this course in a weekend or over the course of a few weeks. 

Tools & WorkBook

You will learn many new tools. I provide a printable workbook with guided discussion questions and tasks. I also provide an Excel spreadsheet for those who like to use the computer. The Excel spreadsheet is for assets and debts and can be used during the marriage as a tracker. 

Topics covered inside Your Marry Me Smart Course:

✓  Love and Setting Yourself Up For Success

✓  Money & Wealth Conversations to build trust and transparency. 

 Work and Career Discussions to make sure you both understand the future ahead. 

✓  Children and what role they do or do not play in your marriage. 

✓  Housework Expectations to avoid making roommate problems marriage problems

✓  Family Dynamics and Holidays to allow you to Prepare for Day to Day married life. 

✓  Aligning your Values and discussing hobbies that are important to each of you. 

✓ Premarital Agreements and Legal Considerations...Because...this should be a given. 

What if you could build a stronger marriage now by taking an online course that helps you address all the hard conversations that often lead to divorce?

I've got you covered!

  8 outlined segments focused on different marital conversations necessary to build a lasting foundation. 

These include:

Love & Managing Expectations  

Money & Wealth

Work and Career


Housework Expectations

Family Dynamics & Holidays 


Prenuptial Agreements and Legal Considerations

   Lifetime access to all recordings and materials and updates. 
  Printable Workbook with Discussion and Tasks to complete along the way. 
  Excel Spreadsheet for Tracking Assets and Debts that Can be Used During the Marriage to Track Wealth

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Hey Hey Friends! I am Chelsea Pagan, a Family Law Attorney and Mediator with a passion for helping people get smart about marriage. I have watched so many people go through one of the most difficult experiences in their lives. I've watched good people turn angry and revengeful. I've watched people spend hundreds of thousands of dollars litigating things they could have avoided. I've seen childhoods taken away because the kids are trapped between two people who love them, but can't seem to find a path out of the messy. 

 I believe that most marriages end in divorce not because of one particular issue, but a failure to manage expectations we have of our partners and either a failure or unwillingness to communicate consistently. I know how to help you Marry Smarter. 

I have been married for almost 10 years and with my Husband for 12 years. We have an amazing almost 2 year old daughter and each year we choose to find new ways to grow together because we refuse to grow apart.

In case you were wondering...

  • When does the course start?
    As soon as you purchase, you get access to the full course. You can start any time you like!
  • Who is this course for?
    This course is for anyone in a serious relationship or engaged. The point is to make sure your relationship is in the right place to make it to FOREVER. You might think you are on the "same page" but so did most of the people from the the 50% of marriages who end up in divorce. This course provides you with a comprehensive plan to make sure you and your partner have discussed all aspects of what a marriage really is. These are the issues that often lead to divorce that so many people ignore until it's too late. Don't let that be you.
  • What if my partner does not want to do this course?
    You can do this course on your own and use the workbook and tools to bring the information to your partner...but marriage takes two people.

    If time is the issue, you two could trade off watching the videos and then make time during the day for completing your homework and discussion points.

    But the course is meant to be done in real time, together.

    You watch the short videos and generally, you will either have discussion points to cover or homework to complete so that you two can make time in the future to discuss things in more detail.

    Make time for this.

    You are about to get married, a huge legal decision. So take it seriously.

Here's How it Works: 

Scroll Down to the bottom of this page and enter your information to sign up. 

Within 15 minutes you will get an email from me with instructions to login. 

The Course will be available immediately to start your premarital planning journey. 

When you are ready...log in, get comfy, and prepare to create a deeper connection with your partner by telling them you are going to "Marry Me Smart!"

You Have Two Choices: 

One. Close this page, maybe hit Google for some free advice about marriage, browse Tik Tok or Instagram for tips and tricks, and then get married!  

Two. Enroll in my Marry Me Smart Course curated by an experienced divorce attorney and mediator, who is passionate about strengthening marriages and keeping people out of messy divorce litigation…then get married!  

Just think, in two weeks, you and your partner could have a long list of goals for your future, be prepared for obstacles that might come up, understand how the other person views certain changes that life can bring, and even how someone might act in the event of divorce so you can make better decisions for your relationship.  

You might be scared of what could come up and do not want to talk about anything that could cause problems, but to that I say, better now than later. If you discover something that you two are not on the same page about, in most cases, that is not a deal breaker. 

You can make a plan for how to navigate it so no one is blindsided later. If it is a deal breaker, then finding it out 5 years into the marriage isn't going to benefit either of you.

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  • Smart Start Marital Operating Agreement Courseent$47

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Thank you for choosing Marry Me Smart! These Terms and Conditions (“Terms”) govern your access and use of the Marry Me Smart online premarital planning course (“Course”). Please read these Terms carefully before enrolling in the Course. By enrolling, you agree to be bound by these Terms.

1. Course Description:

The Course is an online premarital planning program consisting of video lessons and downloadable workbooks. It covers various topics related to marriage preparation, including communication, finances, conflict resolution, intimacy, and expectations.

2. Access and License:

Access: You are granted a single-user, non-transferable, non-exclusive license to access and use the Course materials for your personal, non-commercial use. You may not share your access with anyone else.
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Payment Options: You have two payment options: a one-time lump sum payment or two monthly installments with a premium.
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I'm throwing in my Marital Operating Agreement Course with a customizable template to build your own marital operating agreement to help your marriage thrive! $50 off right now. 

This is the perfect add-on to this course because it will take all the discussions you have during the Marry Me Smart Premarital Planning Training Course and guide you through turning that into a written agreement of all of your commitments.

And you know what? Completing this operating agreement will help you two decide if it is really time to consider making these agreements legal. If you find yourself wanting to ensure certain agreements are enforceable in the event of divorce, then its time to contact lawyers. Speaking with lawyers and experts is what I consider Phase 3 of the Marry Me Smart Method.

Phase 1: Premarital Planning Course
Phase 2: Marital Operating Agreement
Phase 3: Get the Experts Involved

Click HERE to learn more about the Smart Start Marital Operating Agreement Course. 

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